The million dollar question for women is not simply how to meet a guy but rather how to meet the right guy. It is not simply a case of throwing on some powder and paint and a nice outfit and crossing your fingers on a night out. Rather it is a continuous mind set which a woman develops which will lead to meeting more and more men who happen to be the right man in many different locations and not just in bars and clubs.
Looks
As we know men are somewhat simple creatures and judge first with their eyes and afterwards with their minds. While it is absolutely not necessary to be beautiful or even very pretty to meet the right man, I would always advise one simple rule; make the most of what you’ve got. This simply means taking some care with your face, your hair, your waistline and your clothes. Just making a small effort on a regular basis quickly becomes a habit. This does not mean plastering on a ton of makeup wearing an extra short skirt and a teeny tiny top. Overly revealing clothes can make you look cheap and will either attract the wrong man or the right man but for the wrong reasons. Imagine yourself as the man’s mother and try to imagine how would you judge yourself in that light. In the long term, Mister Right wants a girl he will be proud to show to his family and friends. It may seem unfair but the harsh reality is that if you look cheap, or unkempt you are ruling out an absolutely massive swathe of the male population.
Attitude
While a quiet confidence is certainly attractive in both sexes, where many women can fall down is by trying too hard to be confident or to force conversation. That scares many men. Men are, generally speaking, pretty relaxed creatures and if you display a relaxed attitude with a man, believe me that is a massive turn on. In the same way that women love men who are good listeners and somewhat in touch with their feelings, men love women who are chilled out, laid back and not trying too hard. With that kind of attitude the woman is really “speaking the man’s language” and is striking up an automatic subconscious bond with the man.
Relax and Smile
Men love women with warmth; it subconsciously makes them seem to the man like a good wife and mother figure. This is achieved through being relaxed, and simply enjoying the man’s conversation and taking a genuine interest. Of course this is easier said than done you might say. However, some simple relaxation techniques will very quickly make you a calmer, warmer and more engaging person:
- Meditate: Each day try and take time to meditate for about ten to twenty minutes in either the morning or the afternoon. If you’re new to mediating, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. What I simply do is sit or lie down (it doesn’t really matter which) close my eyes and cease to think. This just means allowing your thoughts to pass along without engaging with them. The easiest way to do this is just to count slowly with each deep breath up to about fifty or a hundred, and just focus on the numbers. You will be amazed at how soon this quiets any neurotic thoughts floating around in your mind and makes you a calmer and more laid back person.
- Take time to love yourself: A couple of times a week simply close your eyes on focus on sending yourself unconditional love. This means loving yourself for who you are, the child that was born all those years ago innocent and pure. You still are that perfect little being, and you should send yourself this love for who you are and not what you’ve achieved in life. Picture the child in you, recognise that they are perfect and recognise that you are perfect. Enjoy this experience. Regular practice of this exercise will make you more and more comfortable with yourself and lead to much more relaxing, fulfilling and enjoyable conversations with the opposite sex.
- Get out and get involved: Developing other interests is a great way to meet men outside the bar and club scene. Get involved in areas which interest you, join clubs, societies, do voluntary work, or do a night class. You’ll be amazed at how your circle of potential mates will grow.
The above steps will not only help you meet a whole array of candidates for Mister Right but will also help you to become a happier and more secure individual.
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